Grandma Della admires flowers she received for her
birthday during the mid-1950s. Note her ceramics at left.
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My Grandma Della was into the "green" movement
way before it was cool. She was a recycler supreme, you might say.
Grandma was a product of her times. She and Grandpa Henry
raised four kids on a Nebraska farm during the Great Depression of the 1930s. With
little money they had to make do with whatever was available -- and to make
things last. Repairing, reusing, repurposing, handing down clothes to younger siblings,
sewing, mending, and making things by hand was part of life.They lived in Los Angeles when I was a kid, just a few blocks from our house, so we spent lots of time there. It was easy to spot their driveway, just two ribbons of concrete in the lawn running all the way back to the garage.
Grandma knew we liked to color so she had crayons,
pencils and charcoal on hand, plus an ample supply of recycled butcher paper to
meet our artistic demands. In those days grocery markets and butcher shops
wrapped meat in heavy pink or white paper. We generally preferred the white
paper for our masterpieces.
Grandma was an accomplished artist in her own right. She
hooked rugs, crocheted doilies, created wonderful ceramics and painted in oils,
among other artistic pursuits.
For years she had the same time-tested
"playthings" available for us kids . . . and we loved them. Wooden
pickup sticks, puzzles, dominos, Chinese checkers, Tiddly Winks, kaleidoscope,
dolls for the girls, and if we were extra careful, a View Master viewer with 3-D
picture reels of exotic countries. There was a chain swing in back for outdoor
play.
Grandma encouraged us to keep scrapbooks and got me
started on stamp collecting, a life-long hobby. As we grew older, the game of
choice was Scrabble.
It was easy to find rubber bands, string, or aluminum
foil; Grandma kept balls of each. Lots of paper bags, too. And it wasn't in her
nature to waste pencils. When the pencil stub was too short for Grandpa's hand-crank
sharpener in the garage, she bared the lead with a paring knife to eke out a
few more days' use. Ever try speed writing with a pencil nub? Not easy.
Grandma was the family barber and she had a favorite cut
for the guys -- white sidewalls . . . high and tight. Haircuts were given in
the kitchen where there was a small brown tube radio affixed to the wall under
the cabinets. Since they were church-going people, that radio played religious
programming and news broadcasts only.
For years their electricity bills were low since they
didn't own a television, clothes dryer, garbage disposer, or dishwasher. Their
telephone was on a party line. But when family was around, doing the dishes was
a social affair. There was happy talk on the dish-washing assembly line while
one washed and rinsed, the next one towel dried, and another put the dishes and
utensils away. Grandpa cut and edged his immaculate lawn with hand mowers.
Grandpa Henry and Grandma Della
Although I'm a big fan now, back then I didn't appreciate
some of Grandma's foods . . . yogurt, wheat germ, skim milk, Grape-Nuts,
eggplant and the like. I still can't abide Limburger cheese, though. And she
never wasted an ounce of food . . . her refrigerator was always full of little
glass cups of leftovers to be used in one upcoming dish or another.
Grandma did volunteer work for the Red Cross. Once a
week, she joined other ladies around a large table in a neighborhood garage to
sew blankets and other items for local hospitals. This was a carryover from
World War II and some of the ladies were well into their 80s.
The neighborhood was well kept with blooming flowers,
trees and shrubs . . . and there was always something going on. You could hear
Rudy across the street practicing melodious runs on the piano, watch Watkins or
Fuller Brush sales people going door to door, or chat with Mr. or Mrs.
Zimmerman one door to the west. Once or twice a week the vegetable man drove
the street, honking his horn to let folks know his truck was full of fresh
produce for sale.
I cherish those sweet memories of Grandma and Grandpa.
Life is so much better because of them.
Grandma, Johnny, Mom, Dad and Kenny in 1958. |